When it comes to relationships, there is a wide array of ways to self-sabotage a good thing because you don’t know what to ask and what not to ask. The fact is, most relationships end before they have begun, but the question for those who survive the first dates still exists: What happens afterwards?
If you want a relationship to take a path, your mind starts an emotional struggle. The individual is most exposed and insecure in the beginning when the pair starts to get to know each other.
Now is the time for you to open some serious topics. If you like this girl, you surely don’t want to turn out as someone frivolous, rude or irresponsible. That’s why we complied a small manual with the best questions you could ask a girl in order to get to know her better. Think of these as shortcut towards the best parts of a relationship and a way to make your dates more interesting.
How was your day?
Interestingly, this is the best question to ask your companion, or anyone else. Other questions are only to be asked once since the answer remains intact, but this question is something you should never forget to ask a girl. This will give her the opportunity to share both the happy and sad moments of her day and give you the chance to get to know her personality better at the same time
What are you great at?
When asking this question, make sure that the girl understands that you want to ask her about her abilities and so called ‘secret skills’. Every girl out there likes to talk about herself and brag, so this will be an excellent opportunity for her to say nice things about herself without feeling like she brags a lot.
What toy did you like to play with most when you were little?
This is not a usually asked question, but will surely make you both laugh. Use it when in an awkward or silent situation so that you break the ice and start a nice, fun conversation. Furthermore, this will present you as a person with a child within, worthy of the girl’s attention.
What is the best gift you have ever received?
This is a good way for you to investigate what she really likes. Her question will help you realize if she is hopelessly romantic person and likes gestures such as handcrafted photo album or something of sentimental value; or she prefers jewelry and shoes. This could really help you when buying her a birthday present for the future, you know.
What was the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
This can lead to a really fun conversation. However, you should always start by telling her your most embarrassing thing in order for her to be freer in answering. Just make sure that your answer is real and not some pretentious story. This will help you build an honest relationship with something as simple as a funny story.
If your house were on fire, what would you grab before running outside?
We all have something we cherish so much and that we will surely grab before running out of a burning house. The question here is: what will your girl take if she had the time to grab one thing before running outside? This is a great way to make an interesting conversation and realize what the girl you are talking to cherishes most.
What place do you dream to visit?
This is an ice-breaker in any conversation and can be most fun when asked by someone you like. Knowing where your girl would like to go will not only show you if you have similar interests about a favorite place of visiting, but also help you in planning a perfect vacation if it comes to it in future.
What did you want to be when you grow up?
This is a way to realize if the girl you are interested in is ambitious and perhaps if she was persistent enough to achieve what she set as her goal. However, even if she didn’t you should not rely on this information in defining her as a person because let’s face it – this is mostly a fun, childish question to ask.
If I asked you to go with me to Hawaii, would you come?
Hawaii is just a nice idea, but the truth is – you may ask the girl about any place you want to visit. Feel free to add an activity that you find interesting to see if she finds it interesting too. This will show you if you share similar interests, if she is an adventurous type of person and many, many other traits of hers. Her answer will also show you if she cares enough for you to go to a trip with you.
What do you think us guys should understand about a girl?
Make sure to listen to this answer really carefully because it may teach you a lot about what to do in the future. Generally, when asked this question, girls mostly focus on their previous experiences so be prepared to hear a lot about what her exes did not understand about her. Remember everything she says because those reasons were probably why others lost her in the first place.
Who do you consider to be your best friend?
Girls always have best friends, but talking about her best girlfriend can really help you understand if she is a caring person and has a nice personality. When asked about their friends, girls tend to explain their closeness with things their friends helped them go through, so you will understand more from her words than the name of her closest friend.
Girls are not easy to talk to and you should always take their feelings into consideration when asking them a question. Follow these simple guidelines about questions to ask a girl and get to know the girl you really like!